From Kris Vallotton :
Sex is a tridimensional experience; spirit, soul, and body. Sex was designed to be an act of intimacy that was a manifestation of a blood covenant. God provided the blood in the hymen of a women.
Paul shares this principle with Corinthians. He writes, Do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, “T he two shall become one flesh .” (1 Corinthians 6:16 NASB).
Obviously, Paul’s example is a prostitute but the principle remains the same; sex was meant to make us one with someone. When you have intercourse with someone then go your own way, you leave a piece of yourself with that person and vise versa. Metaphorically, it’s like glueing two pieces of wood together and later ripping them apart. Wood from each board remains on the other.
This results in both people not ever being whole again. Of course God can and does supernaturally restore people to wholeness when they repent! Yeah Jesus!
You can try and deny this reality but if you have had sex outside of covenant, you know by experience the struggle you are having.
Just because something is common doesn’t mean it is normal!
Thank God for the Grace to restore us!!!!!