What is better to ‘love’ before ‘falling in love’ or to ‘fall in love’ before ‘loving’?
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Ok here is my second thought ,I think that when you ‘love ‘someone you make every effort to work at it ,but when you are ‘in love’ ,your efforts are not as diligent.
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I think that ‘loving’ is completely selfless,whereas ‘being in love’ is selfish.
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Being ‘in love’ is self -centered,it is about the ’Butterfly-effect’ ,whereas ‘to love’ doesn’t need any ’Special-effect’ !
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That is why probably ’People In love ’ often end up hurting each-other ,while people who ‘love’ each-other would want the best regardless if they lose out .
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There is a sacrificial element to ‘Love’,you’d rather get hurt than to hurt .
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That is why often when someone ‘love’ they able to let the other person go if need be …
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There is NO pride in Love
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I guess the perfect scenario would being ‘in love’ with the person you ‘chose to love’
So maybe ,here lies the anwser to my question ‘to love ‘is a CHOICE,whereas ‘being in love’ is an biological-moody-unreliable-chemical-effect….
‘To love’ is one thing ,whereas ‘to be in love’ is a lot of different things that eventually don’t mean anything….
PS : that was my ranting for this afternoon,but I now realise that I actually haven’t answered my first question …oh wellllll…IT’S FRIDAY………;D
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Hi Vero
This is good news for me. …Married 23yrs now and
sometimes we get at each other same way.
I realy love this and this has kept me glue to this network
every evening after work.
The Song writer say “Beautiful Words”!! “Wonderful
words”!1 of LifeBut I will Say “FOR LIFE”!!1
congratulations Dona…23 yrs woahhhh…;D